• 19Aug

    I made a list of things that we have been struggling with and working on lately and just thought that maybe it would be a good thing to share with my prayer partners.

    • The kids have been making a list of things they want in a new daddy (no smoking, no drugs, no strong drink just lots of milk and water although I’m guessing kool-aid and tea would be fine too =), not fat, likes to build, plays games, . . . )  So pray for our new “daddy” and my children’s (and my) attitude about whether or not we get a new daddy.
    • Benjamin has been struggling with anger/violence issues.
    • Josiah feels the need to control everything and whines excessively when he can’t.
    • Abigail hides from difficult situations and lacks self-confidence.
    • Hadassah has become adept at manipulation and is very selfish.
    • Maranatha seems to be absorbing all sorts of bad traits and trying them each out in turn.
    • Payden can be quite the little bully and is backsliding on his potty training.
    • Caleb has his father’s temper (not that his mom doesn’t have one =D).
    • And Mom is having some issues with personal discipline/self-control.

    I’m looking for verses to memorize to combat our specific weaknesses.

    Thank you all!!

  • 05Aug

    Lest you all believe I was grieving for a cat the whole month of July . . .  =)

    Well, . .Hmmm . . . I would love to tell you what all we did during July and why in the world I was too busy to even look at my computer (I think I got my e-mail once or twice), but I just can’t quite figure out where my time went.

    Maybe I will just blame it all on Judy.  =)  It was GREAT having Judy here to help out during the month of July!  I just have to brag on her a bit.  Having someone staying in the house, who loved kids, who was excellent with them, who meshed with my training ideas, who didn’t mind my strange little quirks, who encouraged me to get out and be myself, who didn’t mind cooking, who helped with potty training, who had WAY more energy than I did, who could sympathize, who had some sound advice, who let me talk, who watched movies with me, who encouraged me to eat ice cream, etc, etc, . . well, what can I say?  It was FABULOUS!!  Thank you ever so much, Judy!  And God!!

    I really hadn’t realized just how much I had gotten bogged down under the weight of my many responsibilities.  This past month I got a bit of a release from pressure that I’m hoping will carry me through another year.   God is good.

  • 13May

    I almost hate to mention it because I know as soon as I do that Satan is going to attack with gusto, but despite the sick kids and the like, I have been feeling quite calm and relaxed.  I think the vacation and the convention were just what I needed.  It’s been awhile since I had taken some time for refocusing.  I kept telling myself that I was doing o.k., but if the quietness of my spirit is any indication I’m guessing that I really wasn’t doing as good as I thought I was.  I’m pretty good at deluding myself.  =D

    Had another sick kid this morning so shots got cancelled.  The kids didn’t seem to mind that.  =)  We spent some time thoroughly cleaning and organizing the playroom this morning (one room a day, by the end of next week I might have the whole house cleaned!  Too bad the kids mess it up faster than we can clean it up.)  Then, after spending some time training Caleb (1) to stay in his new toddler bed for his nap I introduced the older children to the art of candle making.

    We took the candles from last night, melted them down, added a crayon or two for color, borrowed a wick from another candle (it was extra long) and ta da! Art Class!!  =)  That’s what makes me think that I needed that vacation.  Somehow, God’s grace I’m sure, I managed to get through that whole session without yelling at anyone, getting frustrated, or even burning anyone.  I did light a paper towel on fire . . .  =D  They burn faster when there is wax on them.  Did you know that?  Anyway, it was fun, we all learned a lot, and I think the kids enjoyed it.

    I’m so excited about how the last two days went that I’m sure I will try to cram way too much stuff into my day tomorrow (like cleaning bedrooms, doing laundry, and tearing apart a crib all at once).  We’ll see how it goes.  Maybe I’ll get to celebrate my anniversary next week?  I hope my kids feel better soon.  I think another one was showing symptoms tonight . . .  One of the problems with big families - quarantines last forever. 

    But maybe that isn’t all bad . . . 

    • I’ve had some good conversations with my older ones this last couple of days. 
    • We’ve spent some time as a family-just us. 
    • We haven’t tried to do a whole lot since some of  us are sick.
    • It’s been much slower paced
    • Gave us a chance to recoup after vacation =)
    • We got some good cleaning done
    • Made headway on reading the Chronicles of Narnia series
    • Made Mom focus on the kids rather than the chores

    I’m pleased.  How about you, Lord?  Are you pleased?  Thanks for this bit of calm in the midst of the storms of life.

  • 11May

    It has been a fantastic couple of weeks.  We made a very long trip out and back to see the cousins (and Grandma, and aunts and uncles) and had a wonderful time.  We got some pictures of all 16 grandchildren (that took some doing), but that number will be changing again come September (Yeah!) so we will probably have to do it again.  =) 

    We arrived home late and went right to bed.  I spent most of the next day on the lawnmower.  Any hope I had of convincing the neighbors of my skills went out the window once I realized how tall the grass was and how neat it would be to mow a couple of wavy, intersecting paths all through the middle of it.  The kids thought it was great fun and if anyone asks I will probably blame it on them.  =)

    Our cat had kittens while we were gone, so we made a special trip to Nana’s (where the cat is hiding–smart cat) to check out the new babies.  And of course, there was a load or two of laundry to do despite the fact that we did some at Grandma’s right before we left.  We re-packed for our next trip and again headed for bed.

    The next morning, early, I headed off to a homeschool convention and the kids went to a cousin’s house for a sleep over party.  The convention was great.  I learned some things and got excited all over again with the numerous possibilities.  I have enjoyed using the science curriculumn that a local church gave us for a Christmas present last year and I’m thinking that I might like to try some more of that type of thing this coming year.  The convention also reminded me of why I was homeschooling and also challenged some of my reasons and attitudes about it.  I’ve gotten stuck on the “measurable” part of it all . . .   Anyway, I’m looking forward to getting some time to work through some of that for next year.

    I got home from the convention just in time to practice a bit with my mom and pick up my girls for a Mother/Daughter banquet at our church.  It was also the first time I had seen my sister since I heard that she had miscarried another baby.  She is doing o.k. and I marvel at her acceptance.

    My cousin had volunteered to keep the kids one more night, so I dropped the girl’s off at her place after the banquet and picked up the babies (Payden-2, and Caleb-1).  Caleb had a fever and was up a couple of times during the night.  Then we were up early so that I could pick up the kids and everyone could get to church on time.  Nana’s for lunch and then EVERYONE laid down for naps and quiet time.  Mom conked.

    I’m still trying to recover.  Monday we spent four hours (since I took all the kids-luckily my Mom volunteered to go along) grocery shopping to restock the fridge.  Today I told the kids we weren’t going ANYWHERE.

    Tomorrow is my anniversary.  I have some plans to go to the place where I went last year, but if it’s still raining I might have to change those plans.  Eventually I need to finish unpacking and catch up on some sleep. . . maybe next week.

  • 10May

    Over heard Abigail (5) talking the other day . . .

    “My one nose sniffs, the other one is stuck.”

    I had to stop the van and write it down . . and laugh my head off.  =D

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  • 27Apr

    Yeah!  We made it to MI.

    I hadn’t realized just how negative I’ve been lately.  God prompted me several times on this trip to think a bit more positively.

    I heard a strange noise on the passenger side of the van before we left and I was terribly nervous.  I think the last time I attempted a trip to MI the transmission went out on the van.  My brother-in-law looked it over and found that it was just a clip that the kids had undone.  Simple to fix!  Praise the Lord.

    My darling children put safety pins in my CD player and we had some trouble getting the sound for our DVD player to work.  Oh, THANK YOU, Lord!! for being able to bypass that problem.

    The first part of the trip was quite rainy and gloomy.  The temptation was to grouch and complain, but as we were passing through yet another set of cones and construction area I noticed the lack of construction workers and figured that things would have been progressing much slower if it wasn’t raining.

    I stopped for gas and flinched at the 2.80/gal (I know, it could be worse), but during the time that we took all the kids into the bathroom the price dropped!!  How cool was that!?!!

    And, of course, we arrived safe and sound–a precious blessing from the Lord.

    God is good.

  • 22Apr

    Wow!  That was fun.  =)

    I just cleaned a lake off my kitchen floor.

    I was doing double duty and teaching Caleb(1) how to stay in his “big” bed while reading the older boys a bedtime story when I heard the dishwasher make a funny noise.  “I think I should go check that.”  I told the boys.

    I ran down the stairs and splashed right into a puddle.  “How did that get there?” I thought.  “I cleaned up from supper.  Who was playing with the water again?”  And then I realized that the ‘puddle’ was actually quite large and quite deep and getting deeper!  (Nice that I wasn’t wearing socks.)

    I hollered for the boys to come help and tried to shut off the dishwasher since it was the source of the problem but it didn’t respond.  So I raced to the basement to shut off the water down there.  I looked over into the kids play area and saw water pouring through the ceiling and I thought, “You’ve got to be kidding me!”  (Nice again that the area was fairly clean and there weren’t a whole lot of toys out and about.)

    Two locked doors later I scrambled to find the right shut off.  That accomplished I ran for my phone and called in the troops.  (Again, nice that Mom and Dad only live two houses away.)  The kids (all of them but Caleb - so much for early bedtime), armed with all the towels in the linen closet, cleaned up the mess in the basement while Mom, Dad, and I cleaned up another 10 gallons or so of water in the kitchen and tried to find the cause of the problem. (Another nice in that it did it while I was home.) 

    I knew the floor needed mopped, but I would have gotten around to it eventually!  Really!  Reminds me of the rainstorm in Pensacola that alerted us to the fact that the trailer we rented had some major holes in the roof.  What fun!  =)

    Thank you, Lord, for the minimum amount of damage (praying that the stuff we can’t see will dry quickly without problems).  Thank you for the cheerful help.  Thank you for the quick cleanup.  And thank you for the troops and their willingness to pitch in even though they were ready for bed. 

    Nice to know that You are there to help all the time.

  • 21Apr

    We are preparing for another trip to MI.  My kids are so excited.  They have been trying to pack for more than a week now.  Currently I have a pillowcase full of clothes, kitchen towels, toys, and other various “Important” items that has been packed and it now sits in the hallway waiting for me to put it in the van.

    I’m not sure why they packed the kitchen towels.  Maybe because they were packing everything from the laundry room so that they wouldn’t have to put it all away (part of their chores).   I’m also guessing that the clothes need gone through and cleared with Mom.  I did hear someone asking someone else if they had gotten seven of each thing (I guess it’s a seven day trip, or maybe they are aware of the fact that Grandma has a washing machine, or maybe they are thinking they have to share with their siblings . . .  =D)

    School is over for us for the year.  The boys just whipped through their stuff so fast.  We are still doing the occasional drills, art classes, home ec, physical education, etc.  I’m proud of how hard they worked and all the stuff they’ve learned.  So we are officially on our summer break.

    We have a bit of a garden planted, have mowed the lawn once, are back to hanging clothes out on the line, got the sprinkler out once or twice (though it’s back to being too cold for that again), and I’m trying to get up the nerve and energy to go through all those clothes again so that they all have summer clothes and aren’t wearing long sleeves and sweatpants when it’s 80 degrees outside.

    Things are moving right along here at the House That God Built.  God is good.

  • 19Apr

    I was watching my older kids the other day.  They were gathered around the sliding door.  One would stand in the doorway and pull the door shut right against their head and then slide out and the next one would try to squeeze in without moving the door.  They did a few rotations making adjustments on the door as they went.

    Their conclusion:

    Abigail has the biggest head.  =)

    And she is o.k. with this!!!

    Oh! they make me laugh.