• 17Aug
    Categories: Grieving Comments: 2

    It’s been almost 10 months already.  I feel like I’m back at month 6 or 7.  I did some grieving while building the house, but for the most part it all got shoved into a back corner so that I could concentrate on the here and now.  Now things are slowing down, but I find myself reluctant to pick up where I left off.  It seems I am quite well versed in avoidance tactics and that I am trying to use them on a regular basis.  A friend of mine says, “I don’t like pain.  It hurts me.”  I find that I agree.